Start creating the foundation for healthy, consensual and intentional non-monogamous relationships with these free and accessibly priced guides and classes.

Resources: Guidebooks & Workshops

Watch My Free 45 Minute Bend Don't Break Masterclass

Expanding Your Window of Tolerance for Jealousy in Non-Monogamy Using the T.R.U.E. Method

Your mind knows non-monogamy makes sense.
Your heart wants to trust.
But your body still panics.

Spirals. Shutdowns. Self-doubt.

You’re not broken — your nervous system just needs support.
Join me in this free masterclass to learn how.

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Grow the Skills That Keep Relationships Steady:
Workshops for Communication, Insecurity & Repair

How to Ask for What You Need Without Sounding Demanding or “Too Much”
$27.00
One time

This 70-minute workshop offers a nervous-system-informed approach to asking for what you need—without over-explaining, self-abandoning, or sounding demanding. You’ll learn how to identify your real needs beneath common frustrations, make clear and doable requests, and stay grounded before and after you speak—so communication creates connection instead of tension. Includes a bonus Menu of Needs PDF designed for secure, non-monogamous relating beyond exclusivity.


✓ Clarity about your real needs underneath common complaints
✓ A Menu of Needs PDF to decipher what creates safety
✓ Language to ask for what you want without sounding demanding
✓ Nervous-system tools to stay regulated
✓ A simple framework to turn frustration into requests
Understanding Your Trigger Signature & Repairing Relational Ruptures in Non-Monogamy
$24.00
One time

A self-paced workshop that helps you identify your Trigger Signature, communicate needs with clarity, and repair ruptures in non-monogamous relationships through somatic tools and compassionate scripts.


✓ 50-minute workshop replay
✓ Integration PDF with journaling prompts & exercises
✓ A gentle somatic practice for moments of dysregulation
How to Stop Interpreting Your Insecurities as Evidence in Non-Monogamy: A Self-Paced Workshop Toolkit
$19.00
One time

Learn to reframe insecurity as a signal—not a flaw—with this on-demand workshop replay and guided PDF. You’ll be introduced to the 4-Part Spiral Practice to help you slow down, reframe intrusive thoughts, tend to your needs, and regulate your nervous system before reacting. Includes:


✓ 40-minute workshop replay
✓ Integration PDF with journaling prompts & exercises
✓ A gentle somatic meditation + guided visualization
✓ Tools to soothe your nervous system and stop spiraling

Foundational Guidebooks for Conscious Non-Monogamy:
For building relationships that are honest, sustainable, and emotionally safe

Navigating Non-Monogamy with Aria Diana is a weekly newsletter offering tips and advice for people practicing non-monogamy and polyamory to create liberated relationships that feel expansive & nourishing.

With readers in 46 U.S. states and 61 countries, this newsletter has appeared on the Substack Bestseller List and frequently ranks in Substack’s Rising in Culture Top 100 List.

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$22: THE HINGE HANDBOOK

Being a hinge isn’t just a role—it’s a skill. Sitting at the center of a “V” means holding multiple emotional ecosystems, balancing needs that don’t always align, and learning how to stay rooted in yourself while building trust across connections.

This 36-page guidebook is designed to help you do just that.

Aria’s signature somatic framework to soothe your nervous system, reframe fear-based thoughts, and meet your emotional needs with clarity and care.

This self-paced 50-minute on-demand workshop helps you identify your Trigger Signature, communicate needs with clarity, and repair ruptures in non-monogamous relationships through somatic tools and compassionate scripts.

$11 GUIDEBOOK

Featuring 100 thoughtfully crafted questions, this resource helps you explore key areas of relational dynamics to help you reflect on and define your personal boundaries and co-created agreements in 10 areas.

Text-based image with the title '3 Somatic Practices to Reduce CNM Relationship Anxiety' on a tranquil ocean background. Includes information about using somatic practices to manage relationship anxiety and features the name 'Aria Diana Relationship Coaching.'

When consensual non-monogamy (CNM) feels overwhelming, try implementing these quick somatic practices to reconnect with your body and restore balance.

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